Updated Sept 10, 2020

We decided to make a post about Las Vegas after answering over 15 direct messages with swinger friends asking about the scene in Vegas right now & the new rules in the fall of 2020.

My husband & I visit Las Vegas once or twice a month for work & we stay at casinos on the strip. We were there in March 2020 the week Vegas shut down & in June the week casinos re-opened so we've seen the changes first hand.

Here are some of the questions we've been asked...

- What's the vibe in Vegas?
- Is it worth going?
- Are clubs open?
- Will they check my temperature to enter the resorts?
- Are couples still meeting up?
- Should I cancel our reservation?
- Are the casinos dead?

So here is a quick summary of what to expect when you visit Las Vegas in the next few weeks.

HOTEL VIBE
The vibe in Vegas is great. Casinos were closed for a while but the city is about 90% open again. There are a few casinos that are still closed since the demand for hotel rooms isn't quite there. Especially with flights still being restricted from some countries. Weekends are packed with people & midweek is still pretty slow in the casinos.

- Most hotels don't have room service.
- Most hotels do not offer daily housekeeping.
- Bellhops are available to help with bags.
- Valet parking is closed at most properties
- Self-parking garages are FREE for everybody.

SWINGER DATES
People are indeed meeting up again. As with everything, some folks are more nervous or cautious than others. Over the last few weekends there have been many "rendezvous" or naughty date requests posted on swinger dating sites. These are from local & traveling people We have recently met with sexy couples in Las Vegas. It's pretty normal. Swinging Lifestylers seem to have a different threshold & tolerance for risk. Casino bar drink meets are still easy. While certain bar lounges are closed many are open because they serve food & that allows them to bypass the closure order.

MASKS
Face coverings are required while indoors at the resorts. They have mask dispensers at the entrances or somebody will be handing them out if you don't have your own. Some properties are more strict than others. At the Paris casino, you can't walk a few steps without somebody making sure your mask is covering your nose & mouth. At the Wynn & Encore Resort they're more chill but will still approach you. You don't have to wear the mask while inside casino bars or restaurants. They just ask that you wear the mask when arriving & being seated. Then you can remove it.

TEMPERATURE CHECKS
Casinos check your temperature using mounted thermal cameras. Some resorts scan everybody as they walk into the property & you don't even notice it. The Wynn Encore have screening stations at every entrance. They scan everybody's temperature as they enter their properties. Other resorts will only approach you if your temperature is unusually high. We visit lots of properties & have never been stopped. We've been told that if your temperature is unusually high, casinos will take you to a cool-down area & ask you a series of questions. They want to check if you have any symptoms.

It's not like a TSA checkpoint. The cameras are small. You'll only be stopped if you're over 100.4 or something like that.

Other properties only scan your temperature if you're checking in & going near the registration desk. At the MGM Grand & New York, New York there are medics with handheld temperature devices at the front desk lines. They aim the device at your forehead & wave you in. We work the rewards cards & get special vip lines. We noticed that if you go to the invited guest or VIP registration line, the temperature police don't approach you at all.

At the Flamingo, they have a thermal camera attached to a metal detector and you stand 6 feet away to  and they wave you in. This is only for the registration area.

At the Paris Casino, there is a temperature checkpoint only at the entrace to the front desk registration area. They have a heat device that they compare your temperature with & then they wave you in. It's instant.  

CASINO POOLS
Yes, they are open.  They just ask that you wear a mask when arriving & while you find your seat lounger. Then you can remove it. You don't have to wear one in the water. Great deals on cabanas & day beds since it's not so busy.

SWINGER CLUBS
Some are open but we don't frequent the LS clubs. We do know that the Sea Mountain Inn "One Love Temple" nude resort is open because we had several friends visit. Perhaps some of you can offer insider club details in the comments below... for the benefit of others. Let us know if your favorite clubs are open or not.

VANILLA CLUBS, SHOWS, & CONCERTS
There are no concerts or shows in production just yet. The big day-club pools are still closed for large events. Some clubs are opening up as "lounges" with a similar club feel but with less people inside. Topless pools still closed. The other adult pools may be open but no topless is allowed. The Wynn is renaming their party pool to "lounges" so they can still open and do a smaller version of the party pool with fewer people.

BONUS INFORMATION
As far as I know the thermal imaging machines DON'T screen you for STD's when taking your temperature. So if you walk in confidently you'll be fine. If the machine beeps, you can just blame it on the truck stop toilet that you used recently. " Dammit, I must have gotten that STD from that truck stop toilet again!" Just playing

HELP US POST NEW INFO BELOW
If you have details on a specific protocol at a casino post it below as a comment.

Hope this was helpful to you sexies, share the post if you have friends with Vegas questions. Casinos are trying to make it as normal as possible for the visitors. We are going back to Vegas twice in September & every month till the end of 2020. 

We will be starting up our Listener Parties & Meet & Greets as soon as they allow it again.

About The Priory Society - A Swinger Podcast
We’re Isis & Eros, a married couple from Los Angeles, CA. We are swingers & podcast about our naughty sexual adventures. We started this podcast to help curious newbies to navigate the swinging lifestyle correctly. Exploring an open marriage, polyamory, & ethical non-monogamy is a beautiful thing when done correctly. Come listen to our stories of wife swaps & other sexy fun. We invite you to discover your pleasure with the Priory Society Podcast. Connect with us here:

https://PriorySociety.com
https://Twitter.com/PriorySociety
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​Swinging & wife swapping is quite possibly the most important chapter of your lives. It's certainly the naughtiest time of your lives. Therefore, this is no time to ​go into a scene with techniques that are experimental & not proven.

​​​​If you're a lifestyler or polyamorous person that loves puppy pile orgies with a bunch of intertwined sweaty bodies​, great. We respect that. This post is geared toward the newbie couple that are about to play with another couple in a swap 

In the next few blog posts we're going to give you some insider knowledge to help you navigate "the lifestyle" in the correct fashion. Mastering the fundamentals is an important part of any sport or hobby & it sets the foundation to go play in more advanced scenarios. We get lots of messages sent in & some of the biggest questions we hear over & over again are:

​"Should we get one king bed or two queens for a hotel play date with a sexy couple?" 
 
​"What if the couple is not ready for separate bed play?"

​"Will we scare them away by having two beds?"

​​The answer is simple. It's always better to have more real estate to play in. It's great to have the option to spread out. We would seize that opportunity immediately. We enjoy separate but simultaneous & nearby play. We even love separate room play, but only with a couple that we've played with before. We'll save that for a separate blog post.

Here are the 4 reasons why Swingers should always reserve hotel rooms with two beds:

1. SPACE - Four fully grown adults on one bed is very cramped. It can be sweaty & uncomfortable with everybody at bad breath distance. Not everybody loves piles of bodies. You want to move around with your swapped partner without worrying about kicking someone in the head. ​A room with 2 beds gives you more real estate & a larger play area. ​This will allow you to avoid cramping by ​stretching your legs out & being able to change positions at ease.

2. PACING - When you get 4 people in a small area you may become mechanical in order to mirror what your partners are doing. Your pacing may ​be thrown off by the others on the bed.​ ​​If you're the type to take it slow... you should be able to take your time with foreplay and oral. It can get annoying if those next to you are going fast with the vigorous "ground & pound" movements while you try to perform your slow sensual touch. We've been there & it's no bueno.

3. WET SPOT - Savvy swingers know to designate one bed as the play bed. This is especially important if you have a squirter in the room. Sometimes couples don't reveal that their female squirts until it's too late. Once "showtime" begins... your sheets, mattress, floor (sometimes the ceiling) will end up soaked with warm pee and other fluids. Even if a squirter tells you in advance, putting down a couple towels doesn't always do the trick. You'll have to get housekeeping to change the smelly bed. Remind us to tell you about a woman who was trying to shoot her squirt across the room. During her performance she ended up crapping on the bed, several logs. That happened to one of our listeners & we will discuss it on our podcast episode on this very topic.

4. SHY PEEN - Men with ​"plumbing issues" ​such as stage fright or erectile dysfunction symptoms tend to perform better with LESS distractions. They may not be ready for separate room play... but same room & separate bed has the potential to save the evening. The male erection is very complicated from the mental standpoint. Many things need to work correctly to achieve and maintain a rock hard boner. Any distractions can cause limp dick. This is also true for women. Some females won't orgasm if they cant relax and focus. Extra space can help you achieve greater success.

The beauty with 2 beds is that you have options.

You can all remain on 1 bed if the other couple needs or wants that. But you can also spread out and focus on your swap if you want your naughty experience to be more comfortable.

​About The Priory Society - A Swinger Podcast
We’re Eros and Isis, a happily married mid 30's couple from Los Angeles, CA. We lead a secret life as swingers & we share our naughty stories of wife swaps & other sexual adventures on our show. We started this podcast to help curious newbies understand & navigate the swinging lifestyle. Having an open marriage with ethical non-monogamy is a beautiful thing when done correctly. We invite you to discover your pleasure with the Priory Society Podcast. Connect with us here:

https://PriorySociety.com
https://Twitter.com/PriorySociety
https://Instagram.com/PriorySociety

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Let's talk about a big challenge for newbies & seasoned swingers in the lifestyle. It's called "The Swingers Conundrum!" The dilemma is that you want to attract play partners but you also want a certain level of privacy as you hide from your vanilla friends.

We know many lifestylers that change the city they live in, their ages, & work industries. All of a sudden they're marketing themselves as a totally different couple. Consequently, they attract the wrong types that live far away. Surprise!

How do you find a good balance of what you share on a meet-up site?

The main issue is that you want people to like you for who you really are in life... but the paranoia of getting caught makes you hide your best qualities. If the goal is sexy playtime with others, being honest & congruent is a great way to start.

How do you showcase your best self while still making it difficult for co-workers & vanilla friends to identify you on a swingers site?

We're outlining a full podcast episode on dealing with "The Swinging Lifestyle Conundrum," but here are 2 quick things that you can do right now to help you attract the mates you desire & deserve.

PROFILE PICTURES

At a minimum, you should include the following types of images in your photo array. It's called "The 4x4 Matrix."

4 - Full body pics of you standing together, head to toe. 
4 - Pics of the woman doing hobbies to attract kindred spirits
4 - Pics of the man doing cool stuff to attract similar people
4 - Selfies of you guys doing things that you'd like to do on double dates
 
Feel free to crop your faces out in the public folders but consider showing your faces in the private folders. Mix up the pictures and scatter them around. In another blog post, we'll talk about the kind of naughty images that you should also make available for the people browsing your online profile.

PROFILE TEXT

Fill out all the segments of your online profile & add a few paragraphs of text. Even if you don't have much text, you want to give people a snapshot of who you are. Highlight your style and sense of humor. Don't list a bunch of things that you don't want. You'll sound like a complainer. 

The goal with your profile is to fish & attract the correct people to you. If you love to ride motorcycles, hike in the mountains, or run marathons, put those types of images in your profile. If you love fine dining & wine, this is your opportunity to upload pictures of you at the vineyard. Your pictures will say more about you than lengthy text could. Use it to your advantage.

These images also serve to repel certain people. In our profile, we share pictures of us at the shooting range. We're wearing guns on our hips & having fun practicing safety & accuracy. Well, the anti-gunners tend to stay away from us. That's a great thing. We no longer have to be out with them & listen to them talk about how they would rather protect their family with a golf club or with their forearms. And they don't have to lecture & project onto us the gun dangers that exist in their heads. 

Truth be told. We have gone out on several dates with couples that do not like firearms & we've had a great time together. We have found the Lifestyle to be way more tolerant than the vanilla world. We are able to separate our beliefs & focus on friendship & sexy time. Neither of us tries to convince each other to change our lives.

One couple admitted that they found it wonderful that we shared our true selves & they admired our honesty & confidence. We're still friends today & hang out often.

Below is a perfect example of the kind of lifestyle pic that you could include in your public album. It's my Husband-Boo, he's refreshing my glass with a nice red wine. That pic says a lot to those that we want to attract. To the rest of the people, it's just a dude pouring some wine.

We'll give you full training on the psychology of the images in the upcoming episode. We will also cover several other elements that will help you get the dates you want & deserve.

About The Priory Society - A Swinger Podcast
We’re Eros and Isis, a happily married mid 30's couple from Los Angeles, CA. We lead a secret life as swingers & we share our naughty stories of wife swaps & other sexual adventures on our show. We started this podcast to help curious newbies understand & navigate the swinging lifestyle. Having an open marriage with ethical non-monogamy is a beautiful thing when done correctly. We invite you to discover your pleasure with the Priory Society Podcast. Connect with us here:

https://PriorySociety.com
https://Twitter.com/PriorySociety
https://Instagram.com/PriorySociety

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The swinging lifestyle gets more fun when you "Become the Best Version of Yourself!" That's because when you improve your mind, body, & spirit... you tend to attract higher quality people to your life. If you've listened to our podcast, you know that we say it often & it's one of our recurring themes. Here's a tactic that will allow you to become your best self by increasing your acceptance & compassion toward others. This applies to all of you regardless of your marital status. This works beautifully as a couple or a single playing in the lifestyle.

On your next several dates... focus on fulfilling the desires & fantasies of the OTHER couple or single that you're out with. So many times we are only concerned with fulfilling our own needs & wants. It's nice to turn the tables once in a while. This will also force you to improve your communication with your primary partner & your play partners in the lifestyle.  Make it your duty to discover their arousal template so you can give them exactly what they want to experience.

The following three lessons will help you become great ambassadors of the swinger lifestyle:

NEWBIE COUPLES

If you're getting together with a couple that's new to the Lifestyle, let them dictate the velocity & flow of the evening. Let them savor the anticipation of what is possible while on a flirty date with you. They may love the build-up of what is to come. During drinks, ask leading questions & pay attention. They will tell you WHAT they want to experience & HOW they want it. You can then execute a sexy plan with their primary drivers as the main event. A new couple may be content with a steamy make out session. If that's all they want... give them just that as a stepping stone in their evolution. They always set the pace of play so never push it.

INTERMEDIATE

Many couples with experience will have the desire to take things further during a play session. Perhaps your sexy date is ready to move on from soft swap to a full wife swap. Ask them about their ideal setting. What scene do they have in their head? How do they want it to be? Make sure to set up a "Sensual Sanctuary" as we have taught you & make it a special occasion. Do they want to play in a hotel? At their home? On a weekend escape of wine tasting? Fulfill it for them down to every detail. Unless you're more polyamorous, you're not establishing an emotional relationship with them. But they are friends so let's go beyond the call of duty & organize a memorable event for them. Just like you would for a good friend in your vanilla world. Make them feel special. They're letting you play with their husband or wife. It is a special occasion for all of you. 

EXPERIENCED

Talk to the couples or singles that you have already played with and ask them if it is time to turn up the heat on sexy dates? Ask them about their latest fantasies and see if their parameters have changed. If yes, compare notes and come up with a plan. How about performing a simultaneous hall pass or go out on a double date but wife swap for an entire evening? Maybe have a fancy wine dinner where you all dress up, sit swapped & pretend that you are official couples then go back for sexy group fun?

ADVANCED DATE OPTIONS

These are only ideas. Don't try these things if you're brand new. You can also ask your friends if they are ready to explore full swap separate room play. Perhaps you can hot tub together & then go to 2 different bedrooms for your partner swap. Here is another fun idea: meet a sexy couple at a hotel and reserve 2 rooms. Have drinks at the lobby bar and after a few cocktails leave with the swapped partner. Retreat separately to 2 separate hotel rooms for naked fun. You can meet back down in the lobby in 2 hours or so. How about a date at the movies where you sit swapped & make out like youngsters?

WE DON'T WANT TO SEPARATE YOU

Please don't think that we're trying to separate you. When we were new, we would not entertain the idea of EVER separating during play. We also understand that some of you may be thinking the same thing right now as you read this. Maybe you like to remain connected during play so you can see & hear your lover in ecstasy with somebody else? We totally get it. That's why we're mentioning these scenarios in the advanced section. You should also know that there are newbies that insist on separate room play for a number of reasons. Some couples actually perform better with nobody watching them. Then there is the "cheating" fantasy where you're with a new lover alone, but not really cheating. Since you're both doing it. 

So it's all about discovery & then you respect peoples rules. But, you really don't know what your sexy friends what have in mind until you ask. Challenge yourself & have fun exploring within the parameters & the dynamics of the group.

Your job is to elicit the primary drivers of your dates & show them a wonderful experience. Make the Lifestyle a beautiful place as a result of YOU being in THEIR lives. Always operate respectfully & have their best interests in mind. When you put their needs first... you perpetuate a wonderful karmic cycle where you can expect many rewarding and sexy experiences in return (at least we think that way) Do your best to enrich other people's lives and yours will get better by default. Always be a giver!

SPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE

By the way, we have done all of the items in the advanced segment. These are not just fantasies. We've lived them & they are very fun when performed with another couple that has a solid relationship. These activities only work with another couple that has great communication, trust, and lots of love for each other. 

In a future podcast episode, we will tell you all about a "Naked & Ready" encounter that we had with a naughty couple. We have wife swapped & retreated to 2 separate hotel rooms with this naughty couple. We once did a round #1 play session then met in the lobby and went to dinner as a group. Then we all returned to the hotel & separated again for round #2 of our sexy encounter. Stay tuned for that episode. We will give you the entire play by play.

Below is a picture of us starting our weekend early. We hope all you swingers have a great week. We're going offline for several days & will only be available by satellite phone as we'll be on the water & away from cell service. More articles with useful swinger advice are coming soon.

About The Priory Society - A Swinger Podcast
We’re Eros and Isis, a happily married mid 30's couple from Los Angeles, CA. We lead a secret life as swingers & we share our naughty stories of wife swaps & other sexual adventures on our show. We started this podcast to help curious newbies understand & navigate the swinging lifestyle. Having an open marriage with ethical non-monogamy is a beautiful thing when done correctly. We invite you to discover your pleasure with the Priory Society Podcast. Connect with us here:

https://PriorySociety.com
https://Twitter.com/PriorySociety
https://Instagram.com/PriorySociety

*You are free to use & redistribute this article. You may upload this post to your own website but you may not alter the content or title. You must include the about us, any media, & contact information links as attribution. You're granted the 4.0 Creative Commons permission below. Share away!

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Our number one piece of advice for new swingers is; focus on creating amazing "ROCKING CHAIR STORIES" in the lifestyle. Create lots of fun experiences that you can discuss in your advanced years as you sit on the porch. You don't have to be 80 years old to enjoy those talks. We replay stories of sexy adventures every week with each other. Sometimes we light cigars, make old fashioned's & sit & compare notes of a super hot time we enjoyed with another naughty couple.

Imagine yourselves many years in the future, sitting & watching the sunset with the love of your life discussing those sexual escapades you had when you were younger. It's pretty amazing and we suggest that you endeavor to live your life fully in everything you do.

The sooner you realize that swinging "is just sex," the sooner you can strengthen your primary relationship by adding more sensual fun into your lives. Go ahead & fulfill your carnal desires now. You never have to cheat on each other because you both have permission to play. Everybody loves pleasure so it's time we stop denying it. Consider the following two items as you start creating your own Rocking Chair Stories as sexual beings:

OPPORTUNITIES - You are currently the most attractive & "doable" version of yourselves. Take advantage of the health & mobility that you have right now. You may not be the epitome of fitness but neither is everyone else. People will find you attractive & most of you still turn heads as you walk into a room. Most of you are able to perform physically without any issues right now. That is a good thing but you are not getting any younger. The lifestyle is not a place for procrastination. Start creating bad-ass memories of your adventures.

NO REGRETS - Time is on your side right now. You don't want to be on your rocking chair looking back on your younger years & feel that you missed out on chances. You'll wish you had seized sexy opportunities when they came your way. Perhaps you should've done a wife swap with that nice couple that propositioned you in the hot tub in Las Vegas. Maybe you got nervous during your visit to the nude adult resort and nothing happened. Of course, you still justified it as a good time but it is time to start changing your story for the better. You can make it epic. If you have already been fantasizing in the bedroom or if you have gone to a swinger club, you are halfway there. The Lifestyle is a place for action and we are here to help you figure things out.

CURRENTLY SINGLE? - Take advantage of your adventures in the lifestyle to hone your skills as a lover. Take this time to work on yourself. Focus on improving your mind, body, & spirit so you can attract the best quality mate for you. We know that some of you may choose to be single for a number of reasons. Maybe you've recently gotten out of a relationship or you're holding out for the perfect partner. Whatever your reasoning, take every moment & have a blast as a single in the lifestyle. Be your best self & become a better individual in everything you do. Your future soulmate deserves to enjoy the more empowered "You 2.0!"

Perhaps, you're a couple that wants to explore polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, or simply have a threesome.  We know couples that live the Hot wife and Cuckold lifestyles where the husband likes to watch while his penis is locked up in a cage. The Stag and Vixen lifestyle is also very popular where the man shares his wife but also participates. We have an entire episode on the Cuckold, Hot Wife, & BBC Lifestyle. We interview Mike C of the Keys & Anklets Podcast. Listen to it HERE!

OUR PLAY PREFERENCE

We enjoy the social aspects of the Swinger Lifestyle & the party atmosphere. If we find a couple that we "click with" we will consider getting naked with them. The swinging lifestyle has it all. Your vibe attracts your tribe & you can find another couple at your play level very easily.

We have your back when it comes to strategy for meeting new people. We cover these techniques on our Swingers Podcast, here's the Apple Podcast Link. Start improving your communication. Discuss your comfort level and rules with your partner. Those boundaries will determine your play style. You may start enjoying new partners together. Go ahead & start creating amazing memories while you still can.

LEARNING LESSONS

A full episode on this topic is coming soon. We know that your current feelings & constellation of emotions can overwhelm you or distract you from what will actually be important in the future. See the entire picture and know that your experiences will create a stronger bond for you as a couple.

Below is a picture of me on a slot machine in Las Vegas. I'm smoking cigars with my soulmate & husband, Eros. That image was captured after we experienced naughty time with a sexy couple earlier in the evening. I0t was now our time to reconnect & enjoy our private time. Just us. We challenge you to start creating moments like these in your lives.

The key is to strike a perfect balance & have the best of both worlds. We're here to help you on your journey toward a powerful life with amazing memories. Live powerfully with absolutely NO REGRETS.

About The Priory Society - A Swinger Podcast
We’re Eros and Isis, a happily married mid 30's couple from Los Angeles, CA. We lead a secret life as swingers & we share our naughty stories of wife swaps & other sexual adventures on our show. We started this podcast to help curious newbies understand & navigate the swinging lifestyle. Having an open marriage with ethical non-monogamy is a beautiful thing when done correctly. We invite you to discover your pleasure with the Priory Society Podcast. Connect with us here:

https://PriorySociety.com
https://Twitter.com/PriorySociety
https://Instagram.com/PriorySociety

*You are free to use & redistribute this article. You may upload this post to your own website but you may not alter the content or title. You must include the about us, any media, & contact information links as attribution. You're granted the 4.0 Creative Commons permission below. Share away!

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We see too many swingers HUNTING when they should be FISHING instead. We believe that the best way to secure naughty playtime is to ATTRACT sexy people to you & not chase them down. Yes, it can be exciting to "hunt for vanilla couples & unicorns" while out on the town. But having them come to you, that requires a different level of strategy. The answer to the dilemma is simple & here are 4 considerations for you: 

1. HUNTING - This infers strategy, tactics, aggression & maybe some convincing. You're almost forcing a connection to happen by being on the prowl. You may like the challenge of conquering a couple & getting them to be more flirty with you. Perhaps you want to convert a single woman into a Unicorn for the evening. Just remember that inviting people back to your place is really not much of a challenge. It's especially easy if you're offering free drinks & you're not super creepy. However, hot people are persued all the time, so if you don't have a great gimmick, you're just going to be annoying. They know what you want & they know what you're trying to do.

2. INTERNAL DIALOGUE - How can you be a supreme hunter if your inner voice is repeating what's written on your online profile? "We don't have expectations at the club or on sexy dates. We're not aggressive or pushy. We are a go with the flow couple." Many profiles say those things. We know that some people truly don't care if they get laid or not.  But would you start a business with that attitude? "I'm just gonna invest tons of money in marketing, infrastructure, & inventory. Then we're just gonna go with the flow & have no expectations of the business." I hope not. How you do one thing is how you tend to do everything. So get your thoughts organized.

3. CONFUSION - We believe this is why people don't get the play they deserve. Their laid back intentions don't match their horny driving emotions. So instead of seizing opportunities, many people freeze when they should take action. Their transitions to playtime become flawed. Lifestylers are terrified at being labeled as "aggressive." But when you get 2 couples that are both "no expectations," somebody is going to have to make a move & become the temporary aggressor. Otherwise, nothing will happen with everybody walking on eggshells. If you've struggled with this issue, we can help.

4. FISHING - You must become good BAIT so can lure the highest quality people to you. This will give you the best sexy scenarios. This happens naturally when you become the best version of yourself.  In an upcoming podcast episode & blog post, we will give you pointers on how to fish correctly in the lifestyle. You will all become good "Fishers of Sexies!" We'll show you how to ATTRACT the correct people so you can have some great naked experiences with them. We will help you do this as you continue to listen to our podcast & read our posts. The full episode on this FISHING topic is coming soon.

About The Priory Society - A Swinger Podcast
We’re Eros and Isis, a happily married mid 30's couple from Los Angeles, CA. We lead a secret life as swingers & we share our naughty stories of wife swaps & other sexual adventures on our show. We started this podcast to help curious newbies understand & navigate the swinging lifestyle. Having an open marriage with ethical non-monogamy is a beautiful thing when done correctly. We invite you to discover your pleasure with the Priory Society Podcast. Connect with us here:

https://PriorySociety.com
https://Twitter.com/PriorySociety
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Wife Swapping Swingers Attend the Grammy Awards

Here is undeniable proof that wife swapping swingers attend the Grammy Awards in Los Angeles. The Hollywood entertainment industry is a highly sexed environment & there is no doubt that celebrities have their pick of the litter when it comes to sexy time. But today we're talking about us. 2 people that are not famous at all & we've attended the Grammys for the past 10 years & it's always a great time.

This year we took a bunch of guests to the Grammys & they loved it. Here's how the day flowed...

MEETING OUR GUESTS
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Downtown LA gets shut down with police checkpoints near the venue. So we met our guests at the Biltmore hotel in Downtown LA. It's the nicest hotel outside the security radius. We gathered at noon. Once everybody got there we took pictures & hung out. We then handed out their tickets & had 2 stretch limos take us to the Staples Center.

The limos are sent thru police checkpoints & zig zag cement barriers. The cars are screened several times by agents with mirrors looking under the vehicles etc. Credentials to attend the event are checked and verified. There are SWAT officers in full tactical gear all around the perimeter including snipers on the rooftops, it's pretty cool. Somebody would have to be really stupid to attempt an attack at this event. It's heavily guarded & we all feel very safe. We are grateful for law enforcement & for all they do.

TWO RED CARPETS

We got dropped off & walked the red carpet. There are two flows of red carpet traffic. One is for talent or nominees the other is an express red carpet for everybody else. If your limo has a talent pass you get funneled into a separate arrival line, the one for all the tv cameras. The front of the red carpet is lined with PR people & assistants waiting for their bosses. There are also people that have studied faces so they can recognize talent immediately & connect them with their guides. 

Once the talent is identified, they are placed in cue to be interviewed by the media & television hosts. Then they walk the main carpet to the step & repeat backer board to pose for photos. Their names are written on small dry erase boards & placed next to them so the photographers know who is smiling & posing for the cameras. The boards are always cropped out before publication.

SECURITY

There are several plainclothes police officers walking in the crowd. Some are wearing tuxedos to blend in. There are also uniformed LAPD officers about every 10 feet standing and observing. 

We strive to be inside the arena by 2pm. We then hit the bars & get light snacks. We eat beforehand so we don't risk missing a cool performance. Then we go to our seats because the doors are shut by 3pm. The show starts & goes for 2 hours or so. Afterward, there is one main afterparty in the convention center. We attend for a bit then usually leave to go to a smaller more private after party hosted by a record label or an industry friend.

The Grammy's are always fun. In fact, the period leading up to the awards ceremony is known as Grammy Week. There are parties & private concerts all over LA. We're busy so we only attend what we can.

THANK YOU

We've hosted our swingers podcast for 1 year & during that time we have created an amazing bond with our listeners. How? You tell us that you LOVE that we share all aspects of our lives. You guys enjoy hearing about our daily activities & our behind the scenes experiences. You've told us that you're loyal to the show because you feel that you actually know us.

Below is a picture of your favorite swinger podcast hosts. Eros & Isis, at the entrance to the red carpet at the Grammy Awards. We're happy to answer any questions that you have about the event. Just reach out by email or on Twitter.

About The Priory Society - A Swinger Podcast
We’re Eros and Isis, a happily married mid 30's couple from Los Angeles, CA. We lead a secret life as swingers & we share our naughty stories of wife swaps & other sexual adventures on our show. We started this podcast to help curious newbies understand & navigate the swinging lifestyle. Having an open marriage with ethical non-monogamy is a beautiful thing when done correctly. We invite you to discover your pleasure with the Priory Society Podcast. Connect with us here:

https://PriorySociety.com
https://Twitter.com/PriorySociety
https://Instagram.com/PriorySociety


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The lifestyle is such an amazing chapter in people's lives that they want to broadcast all of their events & travels. It's natural to tell your lifestyle friends in case they want to synchronize calendars & meet you at a party etc. However, constantly seeing pictures of the fun people are having at resorts & events can play tricks on you. You may want to be there too. Don't beat yourself up. You may have a family or career that is too important to leave for a week at a time. You will have your turn.

If you're new to the swinger lifestyle, it's easy to be consumed by all the sexy fun and clubs available to you. We used to have FOMO (fear of missing out) and we would cram-in lifestyle play at every opportunity & every weekend. Not anymore.

The JOMO is Real

We now experience JOMO (joy of missing out) & we are absolutely happy to turn down dates & skip parties to hang out with each other. The lifestyle is merely a bonus activity that we turn-on when WE feel like it. We always honor & strengthen our primary relationship FIRST. It's our highest value.

Tonight, Eros & I, went to a Clippers game at the Staples Center in Los Angeles. We won against the Brooklyn Nets! We even had drinks & cigars on the patio of the Lexus Club during halftime. It's one of the restaurants inside the arena. It was so much fun. No Swingers double date or anything like that. Just a private romantic date for us.

It reminded us of one of our first dates when we first met. It was very sweet. The lifestyle DOES NOT run our lives & it shouldn't run yours either. We recommend that you find a balance between sexy play time with others...& your primary relationship with your King or Queen.

Social Media is all Marketing

We expect our friends to share pictures of their travels & activities with us. However, social media pictures & posts are merely highlights of people's lives. It's all marketing. Even if they're not selling a product or service, they're selling the fact that somehow their life is more fun & exciting than yours at that moment. They don't do it on purpose, society along with the Facebook & Instagram culture encourages it.

Always remember that you're only seeing a snapshot of a moment in time. Their best picture out of the 10 they took. Do not compare yourself to others. These people may not be super happy in real life. In fact, they may not have their entire life in order. That trip may have added $8,000 in debt to their existing load. But that smiley pic at the adult resort will display something else.

Perhaps the reason they're taking sexy pics in a fancy hotel is because a couple flaked on them. Maybe that picture is a nice anchor for them to keep striving toward happier times. We never really know what people are going through. Let them have a celebratory moment. It's their story, It is not yours.

Celebrate Everything

Focus on the good you have right now & start experiencing the Joy of Missing Out! It's pretty cool. When you keep each other & your family at the No.1 position you're already respecting the first item of the "Swinger's Core Commitments." 

A full podcast episode on that subject is coming soon. We will give you 10 action items that when performed, will help you become the best version of yourself. These core commitments will allow you to become a great ambassador of the Lifestyle. You will then attract better & sexier times to you. Stay tuned!

​About The Priory Society - A Swinger Podcast
We’re Eros and Isis, a happily married mid 30's couple from Los Angeles, CA. We lead a secret life as swingers & we share our naughty stories of wife swaps & other sexual adventures on our show. We started this podcast to help curious newbies understand & navigate the swinging lifestyle. Having an open marriage with ethical non-monogamy is a beautiful thing when done correctly. We invite you to discover your pleasure with the Priory Society Podcast. Connect with us here:

https://PriorySociety.com
https://Twitter.com/PriorySociety
https://Instagram.com/PriorySociety


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Those that are initiated into the ways of the Priory Society know that it is very important to set up playrooms & hotel rooms into sexy scenes. This lets people know that you put in some extra effort into creating a memorable time for everybody. We basically want to create a sensual mood that inspires naughty play.

We gave some Do's & Don'ts for room set up in our podcast Episode #19 "Swinger Event Survival Guide for Resorts & Large Parties." We gave you 12 Success Lessons that will help you get LAID at Swinger Takeover Events! We discussed setting your room up, in success lesson #3 called "Make Your Bed & Get Laid." You can listen to that segment at the 26 minute 40 second mark of the episode by Clicking Here. Here are some thoughts that should motivate you to take action...

ARE YOU WORTHY?

Many of our podcast listeners have started modeling our hotel rooms. Be advised that these swingers and polyamorous folks are stepping up their game & they are having massive success while on full swap dates, at resorts, & at takeover events.

We are told that their transitions to playtime are much easier. Also, the word travels fast that they go above and beyond the call of duty. Our podcast listeners DON'T do the bare minimum. You've all seen the people that don't change their rooms at all... the bar consists of a gallon of vodka & a jug of cranberry juice. Not bad if that's your drink of choice. But what about your guests? Do you care?

DO YOU WANT TO BE AVERAGE?

Our listeners don't rely on a single red bulb to create a sexy environment. There's nothing wrong with 1 colored bulb, it's better than nothing. But do you really want to be known as the people that do "as little as possible?"

Carrying an extra tote bag with supplies is not a huge deal to improve your space by 100%.  Yes, you'll add 10 to 15 minutes of prep time but we think it's worth the result. Our listeners also think it's worth it because it helps put their guests get into a sexy mood. Therefore, making "nakedness" a little easier. 

The next time you're at Desire Resorts, Hedonism or at a Takeover event... you will be competing with our podcast listeners for the same sexy people. The swinger attendees will be comparing the "Sensual Sanctuary" that OUR listeners set up... to your room. You may consider ramping up your set up at least a little bit. 

DISCLOSURE

If we're doing a quick overnight at a hotel, we do not go overboard. We may only use a few items from our lighting kit. We may only light one candle. Our bar may only consist 3 bottles: Vodka, Tequila, & Bourbon with a few mixers. We will do an episode on our bar essentials & why we choose to have certain drinks available for our guests.

DO YOU WANT MORE SUCCESS?

If you had your choice of 2 couples at a party (both equally hot) & one couple set up their room beautifully, their room was neat, smelled good, & they demonstrated that they cared... while the other couple did nothing special at all...

Who would you choose to hang out with? Would you pull out your "Poon" & your "Peen" with the lazier couple? 

How will you compare? 

Our listeners are reporting that they're having an easy time inviting couples back to their rooms for a drink & conversation... while at large swinger takeover parties. As you may already know, getting a sexy couple to come back your room is often the most challenging part of an encounter. We're being told that sexy couples are actually inviting THEMSELVES back to THEIR room. The Sexies are curious to see their sensual set-up in person. Half the work is done for them. We'll tell you which techniques they use on the upcoming podcast episode.

Are sexy couples asking to be invited back to YOUR room? 

Would you like to improve your transitions from talking to sexy time?

We have a full episode on this topic coming soon. "How to Set Up Your Hotel Room For Swinging Success!" In the meantime check out the short video below to see our transformed swinger room at the Bellagio hotel in Las Vegas, NV.

About The Priory Society - A Swinger Podcast
We’re Eros and Isis, a happily married mid 30's couple from Los Angeles, CA. We lead a secret life as swingers & we share our naughty stories of wife swaps & other sexual adventures on our show. We started this podcast to help curious newbies understand & navigate the swinging lifestyle. Having an open marriage with ethical non-monogamy is a beautiful thing when done correctly. We invite you to discover your pleasure with the Priory Society Podcast. Connect with us here:

https://PriorySociety.com
https://Twitter.com/PriorySociety
https://Instagram.com/PriorySociety


*You are free to use & redistribute this article. You may upload this post to your own website but you may not alter the content or title. You must include the media, the about us, & contact information links as attribution. It's the equivalent of giving us a shout-out as the creators of the content. You're granted the 4.0 Creative Commons permission below. Share away!

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The picture above is our hotel room at the Doubletree Golf Resort in Palm Springs CA. We attended the 3 day hotel takeover called "The Summer Soiree" by Plush Parties. They are a lifestyle party organizer in Southern California. Listen to the full review of the event in Podcast Episode 17.

That weekend our room was a hit with our podcast listeners that came over for free drinks. We also invited several sexy couples back to the room because they wanted the grand tour of the space that we created. They didn't want to leave.... and that turned out to be a good thing.

But here's a quick cheat sheet to get you started improving your room with the "Triple S" knockout punch.

SCENTS
Bring candles or plugins with scents. People associate the smell of Hawaiian Tropic Oil with being away on vacation & ready to play. Casinos and hotels pump "feel good" scents in their lobbies. Make sure you also bring your room up to speed. Remember that some people are sensitive to certain scents so avoid strong aromatic stuff. Light vanilla & coconut scents are generally safe and create that tropical vacation vibe that you want. Some swingers take quite some time to get into the sexy & liberated vacation mode. So tap into the memories of your sexy guests so they can get in the mood for "the sex" a little easier.

SIGHTS  
Create a sensual environment & dim the lights in the room. Turn off all or most regular bulbs & put away all clutter. We bring led candles & several led colored bulbs. Some hotels use proprietary bulb bases so we also bring 3 utility light bases and led accent lights just in case. We also have a spinning party bulb that people really like. We don't have it on all the time but it's set up if the need arises.

Get rid of all clutter & trash. If your room is sloppy & full of distractions, you will have a more challenging time getting your guests into the correct mood for fun. Some rooms look like a grenade went off inside & they left everything scattered as is. Put away your toiletries, foot spray, & medications. Are those pills antibiotics? Is it acne medication? Are you fighting an infection? People don't know & may assume the worst.

Don't leave things out that will cause their imagination to run wild toward the negative. Be tidy & don't be perceived as a careless slob. Use the closet & the drawers to stow everything & keep the room clean & neat. 

SOUNDS
Bring a good bluetooth speaker. DO NOT rely on your built in cell phone speakerphone to create a party atmosphere. We have a large Harman Kardon but our small JBL Flip 4 is fine most of the time. We actually link the music to both speakers so that we can pipe songs into the entire room & even the bathroom.

Pick a neutral Pandora music station that the entire group enjoys. We start with "Tropical House Radio" or "Reggaeton Radio" then we ask our guests what their favorite station is & we change it to what they like. It's about THEIR experience so we adapt to any music. Their favorite music carries powerful anchors. Let the tunes set a sexy mood for your playmates. This may inspire them to play the fun game called "Pin the Penis on the Pussy!"

These are only 3 of the 8 categories that we'll cover in the full episode on this topic coming soon. "How to Set Up Your Hotel Room For Swinging Success!" To continue learning how to transform your room in the Priory Fashion, go ahead & go to part 3 of this series. Making these slight changes will make it easier for you to have naughty time. Go to Part 3 by Clicking Here!

About The Priory Society - A Swinger Podcast
We’re Eros and Isis, a happily married mid 30's couple from Los Angeles, CA. We lead a secret life as swingers & we share our naughty stories of wife swaps & other sexual adventures on our show. We started this podcast to help curious newbies understand & navigate the swinging lifestyle. Having an open marriage with ethical non-monogamy is a beautiful thing when done correctly. We invite you to discover your pleasure with the Priory Society Podcast. Connect with us here:

https://PriorySociety.com
https://Twitter.com/PriorySociety
https://Instagram.com/PriorySociety


*You are free to use & redistribute this article. You may upload this post to your own website but you may not alter the content or title. You must include the media, the about us, & contact information links as attribution. It's the equivalent of giving us a shout-out as the creators of the content. You're granted the 4.0 Creative Commons permission below. Share away!

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