The picture above is our hotel room at the Doubletree Golf Resort in Palm Springs CA. We attended the 3 day hotel takeover called "The Summer Soiree" by Plush Parties. They are a lifestyle party organizer in Southern California. Listen to the full review of the event in Podcast Episode 17.
That weekend our room was a hit with our podcast listeners that came over for free drinks. We also invited several sexy couples back to the room because they wanted the grand tour of the space that we created. They didn't want to leave.... and that turned out to be a good thing.
But here's a quick cheat sheet to get you started improving your room with the "Triple S" knockout punch.
SCENTS
Bring candles or plugins with scents. People associate the smell of Hawaiian Tropic Oil with being away on vacation & ready to play. Casinos and hotels pump "feel good" scents in their lobbies. Make sure you also bring your room up to speed. Remember that some people are sensitive to certain scents so avoid strong aromatic stuff. Light vanilla & coconut scents are generally safe and create that tropical vacation vibe that you want. Some swingers take quite some time to get into the sexy & liberated vacation mode. So tap into the memories of your sexy guests so they can get in the mood for "the sex" a little easier.
SIGHTS
Create a sensual environment & dim the lights in the room. Turn off all or most regular bulbs & put away all clutter. We bring led candles & several led colored bulbs. Some hotels use proprietary bulb bases so we also bring 3 utility light bases and led accent lights just in case. We also have a spinning party bulb that people really like. We don't have it on all the time but it's set up if the need arises.
Get rid of all clutter & trash. If your room is sloppy & full of distractions, you will have a more challenging time getting your guests into the correct mood for fun. Some rooms look like a grenade went off inside & they left everything scattered as is. Put away your toiletries, foot spray, & medications. Are those pills antibiotics? Is it acne medication? Are you fighting an infection? People don't know & may assume the worst.
Don't leave things out that will cause their imagination to run wild toward the negative. Be tidy & don't be perceived as a careless slob. Use the closet & the drawers to stow everything & keep the room clean & neat.
SOUNDS
Bring a good bluetooth speaker. DO NOT rely on your built in cell phone speakerphone to create a party atmosphere. We have a large Harman Kardon but our small JBL Flip 4 is fine most of the time. We actually link the music to both speakers so that we can pipe songs into the entire room & even the bathroom.
Pick a neutral Pandora music station that the entire group enjoys. We start with "Tropical House Radio" or "Reggaeton Radio" then we ask our guests what their favorite station is & we change it to what they like. It's about THEIR experience so we adapt to any music. Their favorite music carries powerful anchors. Let the tunes set a sexy mood for your playmates. This may inspire them to play the fun game called "Pin the Penis on the Pussy!"
These are only 3 of the 8 categories that we'll cover in the full episode on this topic coming soon. "How to Set Up Your Hotel Room For Swinging Success!" To continue learning how to transform your room in the Priory Fashion, go ahead & go to part 3 of this series. Making these slight changes will make it easier for you to have naughty time. Go to Part 3 by Clicking Here!
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