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How to Set Up Your Swinger Playroom Part 1 of 3

Most swingers that we've encountered don't really alter their rooms. They keep them 100% stock so it's brightly lit, like the inside of a Walmart. To make things worse, many hotel chains use very bright energy saver fluorescent bulbs. Those lights offer the romantic ambiance of a Home Depot. Then folks add their travel bags, clothes, trash, & clutter... and suddenly the room is not as sexy as it could be. We teach our Priory Society Podcast listeners to transform their hotel rooms into a sexy environment.

The above image is our hotel room at the Mandalay Bay in Las Vegas. The transformation took around 10 minutes. In this 3 part series we will give you reasons WHY you should start putting effort into creating a sexy environment for your guests.  You will also get actionable items to help you create a "Sensual Sanctuary" for you & your future playmates.

Pay attention to the billion-dollar industries such as; nightclubs, live concerts, entertainment, & film. LIGHTING IS EVERYTHING! The benefits are massive & here are 3 simple reasons why you should use "EFT" to set-up your hotel room for success.

EFFORT 
Most Lifestylers DON'T put very much effort into their rooms. By doing so, you show that you care about yourself, your playmates, & their experience while they're with you. You should always go beyond the call of duty & create a "Sensual Sanctuary" that facilitates playtime. By doing so, you will be remembered fondly, after your fondling session.

FLATTERING
Soft lighting is essential to bring out the best aesthetics in people. Do you remember the last nightclub you went to? Was it lit up brightly like a Pep Boys auto mechanic bay? HECK NO! Your room should make people feel good about themselves. The soft lighting allows the fine wrinkles to disappear.  People tend to look ten years younger in sexy lighting. When you can boost somebody's confidence, you help them become the best version of themselves while in your company. 

TRANSITIONS
The biggest questions submitted to our podcast are about how to make the move from conversation to playtime. The big secret is that YOU DON'T have to make any special moves. When you create a sensual atmosphere, your playmates will meet you half way. Your job is to set the stage & help put them in the mood. Everything becomes easier when everybody is relaxed & feeling good about themselves. Make them feel sexy & they may give you the sex.

TRYING TOO HARD? 
We received a message from a podcast listener. She said that they decked out their room at a takeover event & a couple accused them of emitting a "newbie vibe." The couple told them that they seemed to be trying too hard by going way overboard in their room setup.

I responded with 2 things:

1. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a couple perceiving you as newbies. You can use it to your advantage & play innocent or reject them easier. The truth about your experience will be known after a short conversation, so who cares.

2. There are people that will find the negative in everything. These folks love to throw turds into the punch-bowl, so to speak. This is the same person that says to you "You look tired this morning is everything all right?" or they say stuff like "You look like you've gained weight since the last time I saw you."

We recommend that you avoid those types in the lifestyle & in vanilla life. They will drain your energy. But at least they identified themselves as the negative type so you can avoid them & warn your friends about them.

Our listener responded that they did NOT hit it off with the "Negative Nellies" & managed to stay away from them for the rest of the event. However, they did end up playing with a sexy couple that LOVED their room set up & couldn't stop talking about how cool their room was. They're still friends today & the second couple has since bought light bulbs & started transforming their rooms as well. Very cool.

When you hear swingers saying that they set up their hotel room in Priory Society fashion, they mean that they modeled our rooms.

To continue learning how to transform your room, read Part 2 of this 3 part series. Making slight changes will make it easier for you to have some fun & naughty times. Go to Part 2 by Clicking Here!  

About The Priory Society - A Swinger Podcast
We’re Eros and Isis, a happily married mid 30's couple from Los Angeles, CA. We lead a secret life as swingers & we share our naughty stories of wife swaps & other sexual adventures on our show. We started this podcast to help curious newbies understand & navigate the swinging lifestyle. Having an open marriage with ethical non-monogamy is a beautiful thing when done correctly. We invite you to discover your pleasure with the Priory Society Podcast. Connect with us here:

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We're Eros & Isis, a married couple in our mid 30's and we lead a secret life as swingers in Los Angeles, CA. Read our blog & listen to the Priory Society Podcast to hear all about our sexy adventures in the swinging lifestyle.

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